Top 8 Most Common New Year’s Resolutions

Every year, millions of people make New Year’s resolutions, hoping to spark positive change. The recurring themes each year include a more active approach to health and fitness, improved finances, and learning new things for personal and professional development. Chances are, more than a couple of the top 10 most common resolutions will look familiar to you:

• Exercise more
• Lose weight
• Get organized
• Learn a new skill or hobby 
• Live life to the fullest
• Save more money / spend less money
• Quit smoking & alcohol
• Spend more time with family and friends
• Read more
• Travel more

Making your New Year’s resolutions happen

Changing habits is no easy task, so before diving head first into your New Year goals, it is important to take a step back and get ready for that impending change.

The first breakthrough in change is taking a personal inventory. Being that it’s the end of one year and the beginning of the next, it’s perfect timing to take stock of the past year’s accomplishments. Think about the following:

1. What did I set out to do in the past year?
2. Where did I make progress?
3. Where didn’t I see progress?

You will want to keep upbeat with your new resolution, so you can use that positive association with last year’s accomplishments to remind you of those good feelings when you are feeling challenged.

As you start thinking about the changes you want to implement, make sure to do the following

• Stay positive
• Try not to make big/quick changes
• Change should be gradual
• Build on smaller changes
• Allow a little room for error

1. Set a goal that motivates you

You would be surprised how often people set goals that are not for themselves. These goals could be dictated to or coerced by a manager, spouse, or parental / peer pressure.

While it’s nice to have some external support, if you don’t share the same passion, the resolution has a small chance of succeeding and could even be dead on arrival.

To do this, you need to make sure the goal you set is important to you and only you and that there is value or benefit for you in achieving the goal. It is these two things that will provide the reason and willingness to take action. This is also known as motivation!

Thus, it’s a safe bet if your resolutions align with the following:

• Your goals
• Your priorities
• Your dreams
• Your aspirations

Not only should you align around your innermost desires, but you should also make sure the resolutions align with your top priorities. This will lead to a “must do” attitude.

If your goals are career centric, like improving your  skills, creating your own professional development plan is a great way to stay motivated on the path toward your goal.

2. Limit resolutions to a manageable amount

 You should make a short list of resolutions that you can manage in the upcoming year. Knowing that short list of priorities is the hard part. The key here understands how to prioritize.

Here is an exercise that you can undertake to help you figure out what is most important in your life. All you need is a post it pad, a pen, and a wall.

1. Write anything you want to accomplish for self-improvement purposes on a post-it
2. Each post-it only gets one discreet tactic
3. Place each post-it on the wall
4. Go crazy – use as many post-its as possible
5. Group together similar post-its
6. Place the topics you feel strongly about at the top of the wall
7. Put the topics you feel about on the bottom
8. Spend a lot of time thinking about the order of the first 3-5 post-it

The final piece of the puzzle here knows your limitations and personal bandwidth. With that in mind, you should focus on your top priorities while balancing how much attention you can honestly devote to a resolution.

Final thought it’s better to tackle one resolution well than multiple resolutions poor

3. Be specific

When it comes to setting resolutions, it’s easy to set bad goals that could lead to poor follow-through. Fortunately, the SMART goal-setting framework can help you craft better goals.

SMART goals are

• Specific – Articulate the resolution as clearly as possible. For example, quitting smoking is better than being healthy. While “being healthy” is great, the wording can be interpreted in many ways.  
• Measurable – Quantify your resolution if possible, i.e., I will lose 10% of my body weight.
• Attainable – Choose a goal within the realm of possibility yet challenging. Making 100 friends this year would be amazing but probably pretty hard to do. On the other, making 10 new friends is doable.
• Relevant – Keep it relevant to your priorities and goals. See the motivation section above!
• Time-sensitive – Give yourself a time frame in which to achieve a goal. A deadline will instill some urgency and provide a time when you can celebrate your success.

4. Write down your goals

While it’s great to have goals, it is critical to document them in some way. Here are six reasons to write down your goals:

1. They are easy to forget. While that may seem silly, we are human, and it is human to be easily distracted and forgetful.
2. Writing down your resolutions helps you clarify what it is you want to achieve. It forces you to make decisions and be precise with your words.
3. Writing establishes intention, but action needs to be taken to achieve your resolution. Having a written account of your goals is a constant reminder to take action.
4. Written goals can act as a filter and guiding light for what opportunities to pursue. On any given day, there are a million decisions to make. When in doubt, refer to the goals you have set to dictate the way forward.
5. Documented goals will help you overcome resistance to progress. We set goals to move forward, but there is a natural resistance to change. Your written goals spur you forward when you hit a speed bump or obstacle.
6. Finally, written goals are a reminder of how far you have come and what you have achieved. It’s a nice feeling to look back at the end of next year and know your resolution has come to fruition. It’s a reason to crack open that bottle of champagne and celebrate.

Here are a few ways you can document your resolutions for the new year:

• Write them in a journal
• Draft an email to yourself
• Store in notepad
• Print and tape to the wall

5. Share your resolutions with others

“If a tree falls in a forest and no one is around to hear it, does it make a sound?”

It’s great to make a resolution for yourself and maybe even write it down, but if no one else knows about it, it’s easy to forget about or even ignore. And when you don’t achieve it, no one will notice or care.

On the flip side, your counterparts who decided to tell someone about their goal feel something different. Now that they’ve gone public with their goal, they feel a sense of obligation and accountability. Essentially, if you don’t follow through, they are going to let everyone down.

Crazy as it sounds, this sense of guilt is often more powerful than self-motivation. The upshot here is that when you do succeed, the people you shared with will celebrate with you!

If you want to take goal sharing to the next level, you could organize a mastermind group. A mastermind group is a collection of highly motivated people who share a common goal and are looking to encourage and help each other improve.

How to do it:

1. Find some kindred spirits with similar goals
2. Meet regularly (weekly or monthly, depending on the level of commitment)
3. Share setbacks and progress
4. Stay motivated!

Now, if you don’t have the time or inclination to do the above, another way to achieve the same result is to make a Facebook post declaring your intentions to all your friends. You can bet people will cheer you on and ask about your progress over the course of the year!

6. Automate where possible

The good news is you probably have technology in your pocket that can help you follow through on your resolution – automation in the form of reminder apps.

Nowadays, there are a million different apps and services to help you follow through on your resolutions. These free tools can help provide a constant reminder:

• Google Calendar: Set a recurring meeting tied to your resolution, i.e. scheduling workout sessions at the gym.
• Google Now: Personal assistant that provides information as you need it.
• Reminders (on iOS): Set up timed alerts for tasks.
• Boomerang for Gmail: Schedule reminder emails to yourself (Freemium).

On top of these commonly used apps, there are also “to-do list” and task management apps that have the ability to schedule reminders and milestones. Here are a few popular choices:

1. To do list
2. Microsoft To Do

Note: All of these apps listed above won’t help you do the work, but they do serve as a constant reminder of the work that needs to be done.

7. Review your resolution regularly

Let’s face it, if you are not thinking about your resolution regularly, you are not going to follow through. Thus, a crucial part of realizing your goal is a regular review.

At a minimum, this review should be monthly, but the more frequent, the better.

Here’s one way to build goal review into your routine.

1. Schedule a monthly “big picture” review during the first week of each month. This will serve as a planning meeting where you distribute smaller tasks and goals to different weeks throughout the month.
2. Do a weekly check-in to check progress on the monthly goal.
3. Set a daily reminder for smaller resolution tasks.

It may seem a little crazy to think about your resolution every single day, but it is those smaller incremental steps that lead to massive changes over the course of a single year.

8. If you fall off track, get back on quick

 Keep the following ideas in mind:

• Skipping an intermediate task is not a complete failure
• Missing a goal by 10% or even 80% is not a complete failure
• Finishing a task late is not a complete failure
• A moment of weakness is meaningless in the grand scheme of things

Setbacks can happen, but so long as they are handled correctly, they will not impact the big goal. The key is to avoid a defeatist attitude at all costs, i.e., “Well, I screwed up once, why should I even try to do this anymore.”

And if there is a setback, it’s important to understand what led to that moment and how you can avoid a similar situation in the future, i.e., “If I play video games after work, I will not go to the gym. Don’t play video games after work!”

Once a mistake is made, own it and move on to the next thing. For example, if you skipped a study session, make it up tomorrow, and keep on moving. A few small mistakes shouldn’t spoil your resolution for the year!

We hope these 8 steps help you follow through with your resolutions and make this your best year.